If you expected more of your life than you have yet achieved and fear or phobia are the problem, you are in the right place, reading this page, now! #How to cure phobias may be the turning point in your life!
“When you have fear then the world is a big place. When you have courage then the world shrinks.” ― Stephen Richards
What is a phobia?
A phobia is an ‘irrational fear’ of something, far beyond the real danger posed by the object of the phobia. For example, a phobia of spiders may make someone turn to jelly, or scream in panic at a picture of a spider. Obviously, the spider cannot bite from the photo, and it may not even have a bite at all in real life, but the person’s irrational fear of just the image of the spider is very limiting.
Other phobias include fear of the colour red, fear of flying, snakes, heights and many more very limiting fears.
Fear is a powerful motivator. Yet fears and phobias are amongst the most powerful limiting structures the human mind can hold. Learning how to cure phobias and irrational fears can be some of the most rewarding and uplifting moments of your life.
Does fear have a positive value?
It certainly does. Fear is what makes us tread warily until we are certain, or more certain, of the outcome of a ‘next step’. It stops us picking up a dangerous reptile or spider, it stops us standing in the traffic with a blindfold on, and much more. It teaches us to prepare for the next step in life, better than just rushing in and taking the chance it will be ‘OK’. Because sometimes, it will be far from OK.
What problems does a phobia create?
In simple terms, a phobia is an irrational fear, a fear that paralyses mind and body and prevents any progress in any direction. It can cripple lives, relationships, cause depression and family breakdowns, financial ruin and pretty much anything disastrous you could imagine.
- Certain colours, especially red
and so many more limiting beliefs. Yes, a phobia is a belief. An irrational thought or fear that has crystallised into a belief system that governs the way you live.
Are phobias important?
Some are, and some are not. Fear of heights is not really a problem if you live in an outback location where all buildings are at ground level and there are no mountains or hills. Until you go to a city. And need to travel up inside a building in a lift. Then it becomes an issue.
Fear of flying is not important unless you land a job that takes you travelling, or you want to go overseas on a holiday for a week. To go by boat may take you two weeks just to get there, but you could fly there and back in a couple of hours each way, and have the whole week at rest on your holiday. That’s a challenge. A flying phobia severely limits where you can holiday and how you travel in this modern age.
Phobias like these can shape your life and lock you into situations that feel like there is no escape from.
The big question is ‘how to cure phobias’?
How to cure phobias is a huge subject and has made many counsellors, psychologists and psychiatrists very wealthy. However, in many cases, the psychological approach is fundamentally wrong for dealing with how to cure phobias. Months or years of counselling is not how phobias were created. Often, it was a single incident that was locked into your mind in an instant that created the phobia. Perhaps it was a life changing or even a life saving event at the time, that now no longer serves you. But it remains.
How to cure phobias? There is a simpler way, more powerful and effective than years of counselling, and it creates a fundamental change in you, in the way you do business with life, at the same time. Learning how to cure phobias is something you can mostly do on your own, with a little assistance from a set of guidelines that can create a new way of looking at life. However, curing the phobia alone is not the answer. Like planting a rose in the sidewalk to replace a weed that was growing there, it’s not a stand-alone issue. You need to look at all of you and create an environment that supports the change from the fear of the phobia to feeling comfortable with the cure for it.
The best way to learn how to cure phobias is through a structured program that systematically:
- creates awareness of your issues and limitations, including fears and phobias
- teaches you how to correct or improve them and the environment around them
- teaches you to eliminate limiting fears, phobias and beliefs
- teaches you how to cure phobias
- teaches you to set appropriate goals in all areas of your life and then how to achieve them
- consolidates your new awareness and better habits into unconscious success behaviours
- ensures your financial situation supports your new goals
- and gives you the tools to maintain the successes you achieve for life.
Life Change 90 is such a program. It is a powerful, 90 day program with minutes of morning and evening activities that firstly set up your day with awareness of and habits for success, then reviews and consolidates your successes each evening.
Over three months you achieve heightened awareness of any issues and limitations facing you and standing in your way of achieving your goals. You will learn strategies, solutions and antidotes to those issues, and replace them with habits of success that will become part of your subconscious programming. This programming automatically sets you up for success. Being embedded subconsciously as success habits gives you a lifelong program of continued consolidation of your successes.
For more information in the value of systems in changing your life around, this blog post could help.
How much does Life Change 90 cost?
Depending on your currency, it could be as little as the cost of a coffee a week, and it is probable that within a fortnight, your new habits will have saved you more than the total cost of the 90 day program and that money will be in your bank account or wallet! And you could also have eliminated your phobias by then too! How much is that worth to you?
To learn more about Life Change 90 and how to integrate this program into your life, click the logo below.